SHOW HOW YOU NEON

I have been trying to come up with how to incorporate Project Neon and how to truly make an impact on the lives of people all around us, and instead of using a different hashtag every month, and creating a different challenge, I wanted to create something monthly where each of you || SHOW HOW YOU NEON || for a chance to win different prizes. My goal with Project Neon is to inspire people to live a fun, fit, and happy life! And ultimately have all of you inspiring others as well. I want everyone to live the best life they can live, and I want all of us to work together to shine our Neon all around.

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The month, #ShowHowYouNeon on Instagram and Twitter for a chance to win giveaways from The Feed and Gregory Packs.

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The Feed – Win a special Harmony Bar edition Feed Box, with a bunch of my other favorite fueling options inside! It is the ultimate KatieHartMorse Box! 🙂

Gregory Packs – Looking for a new hiking backpack? – Then this month is perfect for you! Share How You Neon for a chance to win a new backpack! I’m taking one of these on my trip to Thailand and I’m in love!

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Ultimately, just show what makes you come alive! Whether it’s a walk in nature, hanging out with your pup, doing yoga, surfing, running, you name it! Let’s inspire each other to live the best life we can live. A life full of NEON! 🙂

Here are some of my favorite ways to #SHOWHOWYOUNEON

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Can’t wait to see how YOU share your NEON! #projectneon #showhowyouneon

The Morse Family Biography – Dan Morse

“It’s not the size of the dog in the fight, it’s the size of the fight in the dog”

This is what my dad would say to me before EVERY soccer game growing up. He was my biggest fan, and always knew the right thing to say to make me feel like I could tackle the world.

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My Dad.

The Dreamer.

The Adventurer.

The Funny Guy.

The Fun Guy.

The Lawyer.

The Supporter.

The Maverick.

My Dad. My Hero.

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Daniel Warren Morse (named after his dad)

My dad, grew up in a small town in Warren, Pennsylvania. Growing up he was the guy who always played by the rules. He worked hard, always had a job, and was super responsible. There are many things that inspire me about my dad, but I will name just a few:

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Mr. Mom

Growing up, my dad would wake up, make us three kids breakfast, pack our lunches, AND we would stand in line to have our hair combed and parted. He was always very involved in our lives. In fact, he quit a big law firm to go out on his own, which is a scary thing to do when you have three kids to provide for, but he wanted to play by his own rules. He wanted to take vacation with his kids when he wanted to, or go to our plays, soccer games, gymnastics meets, etc.

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Mr. Project Man

He can build ANYTHING. When I was in college, my three best friends, Betsy, Mo, and Davis, and I all LOVED playing beer pong. Davis and I were always partners, and Betsy and Mo were always partners. We would play each other, or other people, but we RARELY changed partners. Beer pong was our thing. So, my dad thought, “how cool would it be to have your own beer pong table?” So, he made one. One side said DePauw and the other side Tigers. He bought the wood. He furnished it. He made sure it folded in half, so we could store it somewhere, he put legs on it, so it would stand on it’s own, he painted it, and then he gave it to us to keep and use whenever we wanted to play beer pong. Our senior year, our house (us four girls), had THE house. Everyone would come over and play beer pong on the awesome table my dad made.

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He built a shed in the back yard to hold all the patio furniture, lawn mower, etc. He built not one, but TWO outdoor showers, one on the back patio, and one on the deck off of my mom and dad’s bathroom. He also built us kids a tree house in the back yard. We would hang out there and look up at the stars, and have secret clubs with our friends. It was amazing. Watching him build things on his own, and make things happen, has taught me great independence. He inspires me to build things, and tackle things, and to go after my dreams.

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He truly is Mr. Thoughtful.

My Dad. The Romantic.

My Dad LOVES surprises. I can’t even begin to explain the ways he has surprised my mom over the years. But, the best surprise he ever did for her, was for her 50th birthday, he did the following:

He had a friend of his, Mike Williams pick my mom up from school when she was done teaching for the day on a Friday in September, and he took her to The Town Club where all her colleagues from school were waiting to surprise her and celebrate her 50th birthday, my dad wasn’t there, but all her friends surprised her, and they had a fun cocktail hour. Then another one of my dad’s friends, Mike Stoehr, came to the party, picked my mom up in his fancy convertible, and drove her to a private airport. My mom of course was asking questions, but everyone kept their part of the surprise a secret, and never revealed any of the other surprises. Fortunately, my mom is great at being spontaneous, so she just did what she was told. So, then Mike Stoehr dropped her off at a private airport, where another one of my dad’s friends, Mr. Lane was there, and told her “we’re going flying”. So, my mom hopped on the private plane, and Mr. Lane let her fly a little bit, and eventually they landed in Sheboygan. As they were landing, my dad was waving from the deck all dressed up in a suit (my mom says it was like it was out of a Richard Gere movie), and he greeted her when they landed. My dad had packed a bag for my mom (since she was not in fancy clothes), he packed every black dress, pants, skirts, tops, shoes, etc. he could find in her closet. He knew she’d want to wear black since they were going out to a fancy dinner. And they had a romantic evening together celebrating her 50th bday.

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Then, he threw ANOTHER surprise 50th birthday party. He planned a mexican themed party to be hosted where I went to college. They were coming down to DePauw for a soccer game, and so, my dad surprised her with a HUGE party at DePauw. I invited about 100 friends from college, but most importantly, my dad had invited my mom’s best friends from all walks of life. Grade school friends, high school friends, college friends, etc. It was really special. And we partied the night away with pinatas and dancing. My brother and sister flew in for the surprise as well.

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Mr. Fun also known as Uncle Dan

My dad LOVES to party. He has been throwing parties since he was born. My mom and him threw beach parties in the winter, where they rented out a club house, ordered sand to be delivered, and everyone would dress up in their bikinis and swim shorts. It was amazing. He goes to Jimmy Buffett every year, and my college friends and I would go, and he would buy all the margarita mix, and tequila, and coconut bras, and grass skirts. He plans vacations, weird ones where the purpose was to educate us kids, and cool ones where the purpose was to teach us adventure. He truly is the life of EVERY party. He has the best stories, and everyone tunes in when Dan Morse is speaking.

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WE LOVE COUNTRY MUSIC!

My Dad:

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treasurer of every organization

he won a library award – for being a good reader

swimming instructor – swam for Wooster

Frat Boy – Sigma Chi

Record for the most first date “coke” dates at Wooster. – apparently at Wooster, the guys would take girls out on a “coke” date, where they would go get coca colas. Most girls didn’t get past the first date with my dad. ha!

Proud of being Left-handed.

My Dad truly lives as if he were going to die tomorrow. He lives his life to the fullest, never missing out on an opportunity to experience something. This is the most important thing he has taught me in life. Take chances. Be adventurous.

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My dad and I did Indian Princesses together. We would sing camp songs, and camp, and learn about the wilderness. He sent all three of us kids to YMCA camps. We all started at camp Minikani, and then ended up going to camp Manito-wish a tripping camp. Where we would go on 5-30 day canoeing, kayaking, or back packing trips. He came to every dance recital, play, soccer game, baseball game. And he would support anything I ever wanted to do.

I remember wanting to play baseball (mostly because my brother did), and he figured out a way to make it happen. Yes, I was the only girl on the team, and yes, I didn’t play very much, but he made it happen. He truly is the best dad ever. He still to this day will do anything to figure out a way to make something happen. It is something I hope to carry with me throughout my life. Friends, family, experiences, are more important than anything.

My dad has taken us all sailing in the BVI, skiing in Steamboat, Park city, and Big Mountain, he has taken us to Spain, canoeing in Canada, beachin’ it in Mexico.

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BIG TIME PACKER FANS! GO PACK GO!

Oooo…one more story. One year, we all went down to Mexico for Christmas vacation. We stayed at a very quiet resort, and I’ll never forget all the fun things we did, swimming with dolphins, snorkeling, etc. BUT, the biggest takeaway from the trip, was when he wanted us all to pick out some toys, and we went as a family to give Christmas gifts to all the local Mexican children. It was absolutely beautiful. My dad was put on this earth to be a dad. Whether it’s to me, or you, or little Mexican children. He LOVES to teach and give to kids. Children are our future.

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When I was in middle school, my brother had these two friends, Rodnee and Randee. They played on my brother’s basketball team, and without thinking twice, my mom and dad told them they could stay with us while they finished high school. This is who my dad is. He doesn’t care who you are, he sees the best in people, and he is there for kids. Over the years, we have had Spaniards, Columbians, inner city kids of Milwaukee, Costa Ricans, Germans, you name it, they come and stay with us.

That is the SECOND most important thing I’ve learned from my dad (and mom). To have your door ALWAYS open. You never know when you will need one. But, also this has opened my eyes up culturally. Sometimes it’s hard to open up our homes, or make room for people in our daily lives, but there is nothing more rewarding than helping other people.

Even as I grew up, my dad (and mom) and continued to come to every college soccer game I played. In fact, my freshman year, we made it to the final four, and I was totally bummed I wasn’t going to be able to come home for Thanksgiving. So, what does my dad do? He buys my mom and him two tickets to Onienta, New York, and surprises me the morning before our game. He still tries to make it to every triathlon that he can make it to. When I said I wanted to move to California, he supported me whole-heartedly. When I said I wanted to go white water rafting in Costa Rica, yes, let’s make it happen. I want to go to soccer camp at North Carolina – chapel hill, let’s make it happen. I want to go to gymnastics camp in the Poconos. Let’s make it happen.

I hope to always live my life, by making things happen. And I hope to teach this to my children, and give them as much adventure and support as he has given me.

10224_524662497025_1536435_nI Love You, Dad! Thank you for inspiring me to be adventurous, independent, loving, responsible, caring, kind, and most importantly, to be a DREAMER. You truly are AMAZING!

The Morse Family Biography – Part III – Jenny Morse

Wow, where to begin with my big sister. My sister, Jenny Morse, is 5 years older than me. I have always looked up to her, and have tried to emulate many of the great qualities that she offers to the world. My sister is a writer, a poet in fact. She has been writing and reading, practically since she came out of the womb.

To describe my sister and my relationship in one word it would be: SILLY. Even though my sister is 5yrs older, she has the BEST inner child. She easily can be goofy with me, and we always laugh until our stomachs hurt.

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Big sis, little sis. No idea what we are wearing in this pic.

I pretty much wanted to be my sister growing up. She always just seemed soooo cool. I mean when she started wearing friendship bracelets so did I. When she started wearing tie-dye. So did I. When she started wearing plaid flannel shirts, so did I. Birkenstocks. Me too. The list goes on. I remember trying to read as much as her, and instead I would just move my eyes across the page quickly and then turn the page, and so on. Never actually reading ANYTHING.

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Classic Katie and Jenny.

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Fun facts about my sister:

– She read the entire kids Encyclopedia in a week at age 9

– She had to read 163 1/2 books in 1yr for her PhD

– She’s been to all 50 states

– She’s been to 5/7 continents

– She’s been to 25 countries

– She’s published 40 poems, and 4 papers

– She has a Master’s in English, and a PhD in English – specifically in Creative Writing – Poetry

– She’s approximately read 2,000 books so far in her life. (She’s 33)

– Her first job was at a book store at the age of 14

– Since her first job she has worked at a library, delivered magazines, worked at Barnes and Noble, edited/provided feedback to college student’s papers through an online company called SmartThinking (pretty much taught them how to NOT plagiarize), two publishing companies (David R. Goudine and Houghton Mifflin), taught at University Colorado – Boulder, University of Illinois – Chicago, and Colorado State University, and currently has her own writing and editing freelance company, Appendance.

– She majored in English and Religion and minored in Spanish at Bowdoin College in Maine.

My sister truly defines the word: EDUCATED. She reads books on psychology, science, history, philosophy, religion, and yet also reads young adult fiction, or books by Tom Robbins, Charles Dickens, but then also books by Anne Rice. There isn’t a genre she shies away from.

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I have always admired her knowledge. She truly is smart. But not just book smart. She’s logical and creative with words. But being educated is just part of who she is. The other part I admire is her free spirit. While working in Boston after college at Houghton Mifflin publishing company, my sister was vying for bigger and better things. So, she quit her job, and took all of her savings and decided to travel all of South America for 6 months. WHAT?!?! I mean how cool is that? She would send emails and pictures along the way. And I would just admire her ability to just “go”. I daily try to carry some of her free spiritedness with me.

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She went on a 30 day backpacking trip when she was 17 through Montana. Again, how cool is that?

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On one of our annual family canoe trips in Canada.

My sister inspires me to do more, to go above and beyond. My sister is the type of person, that if you asked her to do the dishes, she wouldn’t just do the dishes, but she would make sure they were spotless, that the whole kitchen area was cleaned up, and that it looked perfect. My sister truly excels in whatever she puts her mind to. She never gives less than her best, and she inspires me to always give my best. The beauty of my sister is she is the BEST supporter and problem solver. She can make any sad or tough situation into a funny or goofy one. And knows EXACTLY how to make me feel better on a rainy day. Seriously. The best thing about my friendship with my sister is we know how to laugh together.

The night I launched The Regimen, my sister came to support.

The night I launched The Regimen, my sister came to support.

We truly have a special bond.

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My sister is kind, sweet, smart, adventurous, a perfectionist, an educator, and the kind of friend that will go to the ends of the earth for you. And every day I hope that a little of my sister’s free spirit and sweetness shine through me.

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I Love You Big Sis and can’t wait for many more adventures with you!

The Morse Family Biography Intermission

So, I thought it would be fun, while I’m sharing why each one of my family members inspires me to have them share one of their favorite stories about me. First there was an email string that started with this:

“Okay, which one of you is going to tell her she’s adopted?”

“And she does everything with the wrong hand.”

“And her real name is Peace.”

My whole life my family has teased me…I mean that’s what you get for being the baby of the family I guess. So…they would tease me that I was adopted because I’m right-handed. My dad, mom, sister, and brother are ALL left-handed.

As for the “Peace” story…well let’s just say I decided one day that I no longer wanted to be called “Katie”, and I wanted to be called “Peace”. WEIRD. We have it on video. It’s hilarious. They even made t-shirts for one race saying “Go Peace!”.

Anyway, here’s what they had to say:

My Dad:

Why Katie is an early riser and punctual:

I never had to wake Jenny up. From a very early age, Jenny preferred being
responsible for getting up on time by herself. I used to go in and squeeze
Ty’s big toe until it bothered him out of his sleep. I would go in to
Katie’s room to wake her. She would say she was going to get up and then go
back to sleep. I told her I wasn’t coming in more than once and if I had to,
I’d be back with a bucket of ice water. It happened, I woke her and she said
she was getting up. I left, she didn’t get up, I filled a bucket full with
ice water and threw the whole bucketful on her in bed. It was never a
problem ever again.

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My Mom:

Classic Katie-

When I was Katie’s Spanish teacher in high school (awkward time for both of us) she shouted out to all her classmates one day, “Hey, guys! We don’t want to do this homework, do we?”

I have never forgotten that hilarious moment when Katie just could no longer handle being the dutiful and respectful student in her mom’s classroom!!

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How sweet is this piñata my mom got me?!?! (Side note: I LOVE piñatas;)

My Sister:

A few years ago, Katie and I were flying together out of Chicago to meet the rest of the family somewhere. She stayed the night at my house because we had to get up at 4 or 5am to take the L out to the airport. We were both struggling with suitcases and still mostly asleep, and at the entrance to the train, I tripped up the stairs very dramatically. Katie was behind me and thought it was the most hilarious thing she had ever seen. She laughed up the stairs, onto the train, the whole way to the airport…and when our flight landed–she and I didn’t sit together, she was a few rows up from me and across the aisle–she stood up and made eye contact with me, which triggered more laughter, even several hours after the incident. But the fantastic part is that as she was laughing and gasping out the image of me tripping up the stairs, she threw her head back and smacked it on the overhead bins! Her head bounced forward and she had to catch herself on the seats to stop her from falling into the aisle and other passengers. Now I have the image of her head bouncing off those plastic overhead bins forever 🙂
Also, many years ago when I was going to school in Boulder, Katie came out to visit for her spring break. She really wanted to snowboard for a few days. Although she hadn’t done it before, she was confident that she would learn really fast and be able to keep up with me on my skis. The whole drive to the mountains, she was talking about all her friends who had learned to snowboard in like an hour and how she was a much better athlete than all of them, and she would just be a natural, it would be so easy. Having spent a few days attempting to snowboard myself, and then abandoning the sport forever, I tried to warn her that it could be hard, that we didn’t have that much time and she already knew how to ski, so she might enjoy that more, and basically suggesting that she rethink this whole thing. But, no. We stopped to rent her a snowboard and she insisted on renting it for three whole days, absolutely firm in her belief that she was going to be amazing instantaneously. We got to the hill. We got up the lift. Katie spent one run falling on her butt. She moved slowly. She fell down a lot. By the time we got to the bottom, her butt was so sore (and granted she does have an old tailbone injury, but she hadn’t expected to fall even once) that she said she was done and would not be doing any skiing or snowboarding for the rest of the trip. The next day, she was too sore to get out of bed. There’s a moral in here somewhere. P.S.This year when she came to visit, we went to ski, but it was so cold that we again called it quits after one run.
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Pretty much the only time I was standing all day 😉

My Brother:

Katie went to gymnastics camp for a week in the Poconos, and returned with a full blown southern accent. We could only determine that this accent was to be southern in origin because Katie told us so. It sounded more like a severe speech impediment, but we were also vehemently told by our unreliable narrator that this accent just naturally evolved over the course of her 5 days at gymnastic camp and it could not be reversed or helped.

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Stayed Tuned for Part III of The Morse Family Biography….

The Morse Family Biography – Part II – Holly Morse

In honor of Mother’s day, Part II of the Morse Family Biography will be dedicated to my mom, Holly Taylor Morse. First off, I’m obsessed with my mom’s name “Holly Taylor”. I don’t know why…but I just love the sound of it. Sounds like she should be famous or something. Anyway…

Why my mom inspires me…

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This is my mom in a nutshell. My mom has the biggest heart out of anyone I know. Above is a photo of her in Panama taking care of malnourished kids. My mom inspires me to be generous, kind, nurturing and loving. As she herself is all of these things.

My mom and I on 4th of July.

My mom and I on 4th of July.

My mom’s journey started out when she was born and raised in a small town in Erie, Pennsylvania. She was in all out honesty, miss perfect. She was homecoming queen, president of the class, cheerleader, gymnast, straight A student, and involved in every club you can think of at school. Unfortunately, at the age of 16 her father (my grandfather) died of Colon cancer. It was a life changing event for my mom, that forever shaped her into the person she would become. Just that much more giving and loving. Her dad taught her how to camp, ski, and be adventurous. And this adventurous spirit is what she would keep alive of her father throughout the rest of her life.

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My mom dressing me up, and goofing around.

After high school, my mom attended college at Miami of Ohio. She had a long time boyfriend of 6yrs, Bob. Bob and her dated throughout college. My mom was home in Erie for Christmas, and the local church was organizing a brunch for all the kids that were home from college. Bob and my mom entered the room, and a guy by the name of, Dan , was sitting across the room, and turned to the guy sitting next to him and said “Who’s that?”. The guy said “Oh, forget about her, she’s been with that guy for a looong time.” My dad, laughed the guy off, and went right up to my mom and introduced himself to her and Bob. Immediately, my dad and my mom hit it off. Bob got super jealous, and kept asking my mom to come talk to other people, but my mom just kept saying, but I’m fine talking right here. Dan and my mom, parted ways at the end of the night, and my mom was leaving for Spain the next day to go study abroad for her junior year second semester..

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When she returned from studying abroad, she had found out that Bob had been cheating on her. So, on August 3rd, 1977, my mom decided to ride her bike over to Dan’s house. They hadn’t spoken since Christmas of 1976. Dan happened to be home, and my mom said, “you probably don’t remember me do you?” My dad says, “Of course, I remember you.” They practically started dating that day. Bob, kept trying to win my mom back, and even bought an engagement ring.

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I’m obsessed with this dress still. One of my faves of all time.

My mom was leaving for her senior year of college, and had packed up a U-haul. Dan asked, “who’s helping you take everything back to school?” And she said, “no one.” And Dan said, “well, you can’t have no one help you, who’s going to help you unload the truck on the other end.” So…Dan drove my mom to school, and helped her unload. And when they arrived, a guy who had been crushing on my mom, Tom, was right there and was so excited to see my mom. Dan, after driving my mom back to college, and helping her unload, hitchhiked back to Erie, Pennsylvania. Even though Bob, and Tom, were vying for my mom’s attention, Dan, didn’t worry for one second that he wouldn’t win my mom.

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And he was RIGHT. Dan, was in law school at the time, and would drive any weekend he could to see my mom. Before they knew it they were engaged. So, my father, Daniel Warren Morse married my mom on August 12th, 1978.

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Fast forward…my mom graduated from college with a degree in Spanish, she got her master’s in Spanish, and became a teacher. My mom and dad moved from Pittsburgh to Milwaukee, WI. And not too long after they were married, they started a family.

My mom is the kind of mom that literally puts her kids happiness before her own, and yet that ultimately makes her happy. There is a funny story about how one time I wanted to do something nice for my mom:

I wanted to bring my mom some flowers. I knew she loved flowers. So, I went out in to the front yard, and cut the flowers that had grown out there, and made a bouquet. Unfortunately, unbenounced to me, my mom had just planted these flowers a few weeks ago, and they had just bloomed. 😦 Oops!

How my mom’s and my relationship played out growing up:

My mom has always been my best friend and role model. As a child, I would help her in the kitchen, we would color together, plant flowers, do gymnastics, and every night before I went to bed, she would rub my back. I remember one night, I don’t know why, but something just clicks in you as a kid, and I asked her not to rub my back anymore. How heartbreaking as an adult to remember saying that to your mom. But, we start to grow up and want our independence.

My mom and I camping on a girl scouts outing.

My mom and I camping on a girl scouts outing.

My mom and I started to have the usual mom/daughter battles, as I craved independence, and she still wanted to parent me. I was a bit of a rebellious teen, but we can get to my own story in a nutshell some other time. I think what made my teenage years the most trying was that my mom taught at the same school I attended growing up. Not only did she teach at the same school, but she was my Spanish teacher, freshman, sophomore, and senior year of high school. That is NOT easy as a teenager.

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Mother’s day 2011

As soon as I got to college, our relationship got a lot better, and we became great friends again. As I got older, I really grew to appreciate all that my mom brings to this world. She has made a miraculous difference, and I know she will continue to. Here are some of the ways she truly inspires me:

– My mom is a teacher – yes as simple as that. On a daily basis for 30yrs, she has stood in front of high school kids, and taught them Spanish. This is not an easy task no matter what the high school.

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Christmas 2011

– My mom started her own business, The Panama Service Project. The Panama Service Project started out as a program that would take high school kids to Santiago, Panama, and learn about the culture while also doing community service at a center for malnourished kids, where they are rehabilitated and brought back to full nourishment, so that they can be returned to their families. This business is in conjunction with a non-profit she started “Friends of Nutre Hogar“, to raise money for this tiny little place that provides medical care for these malnourished kids. I have been very fortunate to go to Panama 3x and help out at Nutre Hogar. My mom now takes adults, in addition to high school kids, who are interested in learning about the Panamanian culture and helping out at Nutre Hogar. This is truly how/why my mom inspires me. She is always thinking of others, and has done her best to teach Jenny, Ty, and I to always be thinking of others too. My mom would give up her left arm if it meant a kid could have a full life. Her passion for kids is truly remarkable.

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– My mom did her first half marathon at the age of 53. We did it together :).

– My mom did her first triathlon with me at the age of 54.

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– My mom’s resilience always inspires me. My mom has come back from a lot of sadness and or tough times in her life. From the death of her father, to a misdiagnosis of cancer that ended up in an unnecessary surgery that would cut open her entire stomach from the bottom of the rib cage to her pelvis. She is a warrior, a fighter, a hero for many, especially me.

My mom spends her days and weekends trying to do more for everyone, whether it’s doing a can drive at school, feeding the homeless, raising money for different other charities, cheering on kids at their soccer game, spending extra time after school to help students with their homework, taking walks with friends, spending time with the family, or even taking her children shopping on HER birthday.

How my mom spends her weekends...letting kids paint her face. ha!

How my mom spends her weekends…letting kids paint her face. ha!

My mom inspires me to give, be kind, and do more, every single day of my life. I hope to pass on all the values my mom has taught me to my future kids, and give them all the confidence and strength to do what they love.

I have to thank my mom for attending almost every dance recital, gymnastics meet, soccer game, speech, awards banquet, marathon, I pretty much ever participated in. And even now, when I live on the other side of the country, my dad and her do their very best to be at every race they can be at. I will never forget how much they support me, and I WILL do that for my own kids one day.

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I LOVE YOU MOM! HAPPY MOTHER’S DAY!

Keep inspiring the world. You are truly amazing.

The Morse Family Biography In A Nutshell – Part I – Ty Morse

For a while now, I’ve been wanting to write a blog post series on my family. Mostly because each of them inspire me on a daily basis. They each have a unique story, and a passion in life. It’s as if each one of them is trying to change the world in their own way. It’s truly amazing and inspiring. And although this blog is generally about my triathlon journey, they each inspire me along the way.

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I’m going to start the series with my brother, and tell his story from my point of view, and why he inspires me. My brother, Daniel Taylor Morse, is 3yrs older than me. His nickname is “Ty”, and we still have no idea how he got that nickname. Daniel, is my dad’s name, Taylor is my mom’s maiden name, and well Morse is the family name from my dad. When we were kids growing up, he loved to cause trouble. He seriously was like Dennis the Mennis or Problem Child. There are too many stories to tell, about him growing up, so I’ll mention a few of my favorites:

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1. He was in art class at the age of 4, the whole class was painting on their individual easels. He got bored, and the girl next to him was annoying him, so he decided to just start painting the girl’s hair instead. Needless to say he got kicked out of that school.

2. His friend and him were building something and needed some paint. My brother was about 8. My dad kept all his hardware/painting/home depot type supplies locked away in a room in the basement. It was his workshop. My parents were out of town, and my older sister, myself, and my brother had a babysitter for the weekend. So, of course, my brother thought it was the perfect opportunity to get the paint. So, again at the age of 8, he took some electric hedge trimmers, and cut a huge hole in my dad’s workshop door, and proceeded to enter, and then cut open EVERY SINGLE paint can in order to find the right color.

3. My brother got grounded A LOT growing up. And to entertain himself, he would make “home videos”. He ended up making a series of infomercials.

4. One time my brother was told to go to his room, and my parents locked him in there. He was a black belt in karate (as my parents entered him in karate to help channel all the crazy energy he had), and so he kicked a hole in his door in order to get out. My dad ended up taking the door off of his room, and he never had anymore privacy.

5. My brother played basketball in high school. He was on the varsity team as a freshman, but he primarily sat the bench. One game, he was getting frustrated by just sitting the bench, and the team was losing, so he literally decided on his own to sub himself in. It was hilarious.

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Okay…so as you can see my brother was the ULTIMATE problem child. On a daily basis, he was a pain in the a$$. But, truly I think it was his adventurous spirit, and his curiosity that made him the way he was as a child. He didn’t like to be tied down. He loves to have his freedom and independence.

My brother and I primarily connected when it came to sports. We both played soccer, did gymnastics, baseball, tennis, diving, swimming, you name it, we did it. We would take seat cushions and ride them down the stairs. We’d practice magic tricks. Go to open gym at the gymnastics gym. We loved to be active together.

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In high school, my brother got a bit tamer. He started to channel his creativity through music and also became a really good soccer player. Unfortunately, his senior year of high school, during a game, a guy on the other team, slide tackled my brother and his cleat went right into my brother’s ankle and snapped it in half. This pretty much ended my brother’s soccer career. 😦

Fortunately, he had a LOVE for music. He had been in the band, played trumpet, sang in the choir, and had an obsession with Bob Marley at the time. He was the most popular kid at school. He was president of his class, captain of the soccer team, had a steady girlfriend, although he had LOTS of admirers. And yet, he was as straight edge as they come. He never drank a drop of alcohol until he got to college. Seriously, he went from “Problem Child” to “Poster Child”.

I should mention, my brother has had some pretty interesting obsessions.

– Shaka Zulu

– Bob Marley

– Pink Floyd

– Star Wars

– Snickers Bars

Just to name a few…

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When my brother went off to college, I was pretty bummed. Mostly, because that meant it was just going to be “me” at the dinner table with “mom and dad”. I love my parents, but DAMN that is scary as a teenager. My brother went to Davidson College in North Carolina. A top liberal arts school, where he walked on the soccer team, and eventually met his best friends through the soccer team, but ultimately gave it up because of his ankle. He pledged a fraternity, Kappa Alpha, and dated 3 different girls while there. My brother was the ultimate serial long term relationship dude. Or at least he had been, until he met his now wife, Tara. His high school girlfriend, Katy, he dated for 4yrs, then Amanda for 1, Amy for 2, Kiften for 2. (P.S how cool is the name Kiften?…just sayin’).

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College began his party days, and it also was when my brother and I really started to become friends. I went to visit him a few times while he went to school at Davidson, and every time we had a blast. And when I got to college, he came to visit me a couple times, and let’s just say he learned how to REALLY party. He thought he knew, but really he had no idea. ha! Anyway, along the way, my brother started making some really cool projects happen.

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When in high school, he wrote a Rock Opera to the book, “Beowulf” for an English project. Through that project he connected with a family friend, Jon Greenlee (who had written part I, and my brother part II). Through the making of this Rock Opera, my brother taught himself how to play guitar.

My brother double majored in Biology and English, and minored in Spanish in college. For his final project for English, he wanted to write a Rock Opera on the book “Frankenstein”. Jon Greenlee and him collaborated on the project, and ultimately put on a whole Rock Opera at Davidson college. They had actors and actresses, and the Davidson orchestra. It was unbelievable. They invited a few managers from New York City to come down and watch, and a few showed. As much as it was a hit, they needed a certain amount of money to really try to make this a broadway production, and they fell shy by a few hundred thousand dollars.

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My brother on his wedding day.

My brother being the entrepeneur that he is, when this venture fell through, he moved on to the next venture. After college he moved to Washington D.C and worked at Discovery Channel, which is where he met his wife, Tara. While at Discovery Channel, he tried launching a study abroad program. It ultimately failed. He then tried starting a record label, that still exists, but is more just for fun, than a money maker. So, business wise, failed. He and Jon got their wheels turning, and between Jon’s technology expertise and Ty’s business savvy mind, they started to think of another way to make money. It was then that “Songwhale” was born.

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Songwhale is an “interactive technology company that enables brands & companies to reach consumers with their message across multiple touch-points. We design. We engineer. We connect… For every device.” Songwhale was born in the year of 2006. My brother left Discovery Channel, broke up with Tara, and moved to Minneapolis to live on Jon’s couch, in the hopes that this would work! He literally gave up everything.

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Along the way, my brother had met a friend, Jay Demerit. Jay Demerit is a world class soccer player, who just happens to be from Green Bay, Wisconsin, and would come down and play on Ty’s club soccer team, every now and then growing up. Jay and Ty, quickly became best buddies, and it was Jay, who ultimately was the guy who put the whole thing together. Jay has his own inspiring story, which you can learn about here. Jay ended up playing soccer in Europe, and taking his team Watford to the premiership. He was playing against the best of the best. And earning a pretty darn good living doing so. He ended up being the first investor. And this formed the trio, that would make “Songwhale”.

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As “Songwhale” started to grow, my brother realized that he had given up the greatest woman that had every happened to him, Tara. She had applied to graduate school in New York City, and was going to be moving there. Ty, worked his magic, and slowly won Tara back. He moved to NYC, and worked at Virgin Records, for two years while Songwhale continued to grow, and Tara earned her masters in counseling.

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After a few years of trial and error, of how Songwhale would make it’s way in the technology business, they ended up landing on a few different platforms, but the platform they work the most closely with today is the infomercial industry. They have made it easy for people to text to pay for items they want to buy, right off of the t.v. They don’t have to call, email, etc. They just “text”. Songwhale now has offices in Asia, as well as the U.S. And they are based out of Pittsburgh.

There are two really interesting pieces of my brother’s story that foreshadowed the rest of his life.

1. He made infomercials as a kid, and now he is making a living off of infomercials.

2. Every baseball cap my brother owned and wore growing up, foreshadowed all the cities he would live in. He wore a Charlotte Hornets cap (went to Davidson, near Charlotte, N.C), wore a Washington Redskins cap (lived in Washington D.C), wore a New York Yankees cap (lived in New York City), and wore a Pittsburgh Pirates cap (now lives in Pittsburgh, PA). How crazy is that?

Fun Facts:

– My brother now lives with his wife in Pittsburgh, with their daughter, London.

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– My brother writes his own music, and has made a few albums

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– My brother is 31, and has been a nominee twice for the Young Entrepreneur of the Year award.

– My brother survived a night out in the ocean in a kayak, all by himself, while he was on a trip in Mexico rescuing baby sea turtles. Somehow he got lost from the rest of the group, and before he knew it, it was pitch black. He should probably be on one of those episodes, “I shouldn’t be alive”.

So…this is my brother’s story in a nutshell. There is sooo much more to tell…but you’ll have to check out the documentary when it comes out on him, later this year.

I think what inspires me most about my brother is he NEVER gave up. He has followed his dreams, and not once, stopped trying because of failure. He is a dreamer, a musician, an entrepreneur, a dad, a husband, a brother, a son, and he is the BEST brother a girl could have.

Here’s a pic of him cheering me on at Ironman Wisconsin. One of my absolute favorite pics. 302267_606580221432_329687153_n (1)

LOVE YOU BRO! Keep changing the world and inspiring us all! You are truly amazing.

1 week til Leadman, 4 weeks til Wildflower

1 week til Leadman

1 week until I swim 1.5 miles, bike 70, and run 8.

1 week til I see where my fitness is at going into Wildflower

I have no expectations for Leadman. It was a last minute sign up. There has and will be no real taper. It’s just a really really hard training day. My friends, Jené and Andrea, talked to me into it, so no matter what it will be a fun girls weekend! 🙂

This week was a challenging week. I had a lot of different work/social commitments that made for a challenging week for training, but a good week!

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My brother was in town for a conference. He owns a company called, Songwhale (www.songwhale.com), which does the payment processing for infomercials through texting. (text to pay). Super weird and interesting business, the conversations about different products, was fascinating. Have you ever heard of Mr. Lid? Forever Lazy? P90x? Yup, these are some of my brother’s clients. Maybe someday I’ll do a blog series on my bro, cause he’s got a super interesting story…

Anyway…

It was fun to see him! We went to the Hard Rock hotel both Tues and Wednesday night for happy hour drinks…

Love Aerosmith! Favorite song..."Going Down/Love in the Elevator"

Love Aerosmith! Favorite song…”Going Down/Love in the Elevator”

And then went to a sushi place on Tuesday night for dinner (Taka), and a new restaurant called Gang Kitchen on Wednesday night. I never go downtown, so it was fun to check out that scene two nights in a row.

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Monday – I ran and did strength – felt good…solid day

Tuesday – swim and bike

Swim – I went to the pool and well…I can’t do flip turns. Randomly when I was turning away from the wall one time, I turned funky…and I pulled something in my chest. I kept swimming though. It was kind of uncomfortable, but I wasn’t weak or anything, it just hurt when I grabbed the wall with my left arm to turn myself around. I finished my workout, and thought…weird. What a LAME way to “injure” myself….

Wednesday – Swim

I went to master’s, and although swimming was “fine”, I couldn’t grab the wall with my left arm, AT ALL. I occasionally would do this weird doggy paddle motion just so that I could turn myself around by grabbing the wall with my right hand. Alrighty, this is worse than I thought, I thought to myself. So…I called up my massage therapist, Gina, and she could get me in on Friday. No swimming til I saw her…

Thursday – Strength and Torrey Pines hill repeats 🙂 I LOVE Torrey Pines hill repeat days (yes, Beth, you heard me…I’m totally okay with this being on my schedule every week)

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When you have a view like this…what’s not to like?

Stole this pic from Beth...

Stole this pic from Beth…

Friday – Run, MASSAGE, Going away party for my friend Linzay 😦

Run went well – I had a tempo run – and did this on the treadmill so that I could control my speed and environment

Massage – was BRUTAL. Definitely got my a$$ worked. I was sweating so badly, I’m pretty sure I drenched the sheet covering me. ha! But, I think we got most of the gunk worked out. 🙂

Going away party for Linzay – Linzay worked at competitor as an editor, and got a great job at a start-up company in San Francisco that she couldn’t refuse, and she had been wanting to move to SF for awhile now. Fortunately I get to see her in a couple months when I go up there for a wedding!

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Pouty faces

Pouty faces

Saturday – Long ride and brick run

Andrea had invited me to come on a ride with her and some other kids. I was excited to check out a new route, and meet some new people. Immediately, Gerry “stole my heart” 😉 Gerry is a 75yr old man, who is full of life and energy. He is a total badass in triathlon, and just won his age group at Oceanside. He also qualified for Kona at Ironman Arizona in November. Surprisingly, he turned down both his Vegas and Kona slot…ha! His big goal is to beat the record of 8hrs for his age group at Wildflower in a few weeks. His wife Dee, is a real sweetheart too, can’t wait to try her Pad Thai that he was raving about the entire ride!

I really enjoyed riding with this group! They were a lot of fun and everyone had GREAT stories. That’s one of my favorite parts about riding bikes with people, there is really no better way to get to know someone. Your out there, and the only real way to entertain ourselves is to chat it up.

Some photos from Saturdays ride through the California hills/mountains…

Gerry, THE most bada$$ 75yr old there is...

Gerry, THE most bada$$ 75yr old there is…

We had some spectacular scenery

We had some spectacular scenery

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Fun pit stop

Fun pit stop

De Luz School House for a little history lesson - this one room school house is still in use. There was a guy who renovated, and preserves the grounds, and he actually let us inside to see it...and use the bathroom :)

De Luz School House for a little history lesson – this one room school house is still in use. There was a guy who renovated, and preserves the grounds, and he actually let us inside to see it…and use the bathroom 🙂

All the children have these boots to wear, for certain activities...we were in a school house, so I had to make the photo look kinda old ;)

All the children have these boots to wear, for certain activities…we were in a school house, so I had to make the photo look kinda old 😉

I finished up Saturday with 65 miles of riding, 6700ft of climbing, and a whole lot of fun! I then headed out for a t-run for 45min 🙂 Solid day of training

Sunday – After falling asleep at 9:30pm on Saturday night…and waking up at 8:30am…and still being sleepy…I decided to have a lazy Sunday morning. I was exhausted, and starving. So I made some breakfast (eggs, spinach, pico de gallo, a greek yogurt, and a banana), then I was still super hungry, so I had a kind bar (coconut almond). I then lounged in bed, fell back asleep. And ultimately, the day was slowly turning into a rest day. I hadn’t had a rest day in three weeks, and I think my body was telling me something. At noon, I was getting ready to start the days workouts, when coach texted me, and I just asked her…rest day today? long run tomorrow? Questions ensued…and ultimately, we decided…rest day today. I’m already starting to feel better, and I’m pumped for tomorrow’s workouts 🙂 Sometimes, you just gotta listen to your body.

Ultimately, that’s Beth’s method, when it comes to rest days. I remember her telling me that early on. She doesn’t really plan rest days into my schedule, unless it’s right before a race. Generally, I go, until my body starts telling me something. I think this is waaay better, than to plan it. Sometimes you just need one. And sometimes, you can train for two or three weeks straight and never need one. Use your energy while you got it, and give your body rest when it needs it. It’s the same way how we pace ourselves off of feel in races. We go hard when we are feeling good, and we might back off a bit, when we feel like we need to.

So, today…I have chatted with friends, watched a lot of hulu, caught up on some reading, eaten a lot of food, and napped. 🙂 It’s been a solid day of rest.

The best part of my day?…

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Facetiming with my niece, London. She is 10 months. I got to see her take 3 steps before falling down. THE best part of this is that, when you say “hello?” “hello?” whatever she has in her hand, she puts it up to her ear to “answer”. It is the sweetest thing. In this case, it was a remote. Made my day ❤

How often do you take rest days? Planned or unplanned?